Moved on..

I just bloody hate these words – 'moved on'

May be they are for good, but it resembles so disrespect for the feelings, for the person and for everything invested in the matter.

Is it so easy to forget and move on? Does the time spent together means nothing? Do all the things said and done together have no meaning and existence?

How can a human being just forget what he as done / or what he has bore and just 'move on'?

May be this is the crying need of the hour. In our so called fast-paced lives, we don't have times for stopping, giving a second thought and cribbing.

Or may be its not that worth to pay a heed to or devote some time to analyze what happened, why did it happen and can things be sorted out.

I am not saying in particular about love affairs, but also in friendships, relationships, everywhere; ego has taken its stroll. They can so easily be washed away, so speedily be forgotten and so carelessly be 'moved on'.

At times they used to be the best of buddies, companions and now is the time when it doesn't even matter a bit that they decide to walk different paths. There were times when they were so crazy about each other that they needed one another at every move, every moment and now the time has rolled so harshly that all those moves, moments don't even find a place in a trash. Everything seems so meaningless. May be they have progressed as an individual, but they have certainly lost their character. There is a lull in their soul.

I just don't understand, why do people do not work out their so called issues?

Everything can be divided into understanding and misunderstanding. If there is understanding, no breeze of doubt or hurt will ever make you apart. If there is misunderstanding, it is your morale responsibility to clear it out. Because it can devastate everything in mean time.

So instead of 'moving on' why can't people just try to 'sort it out'? I personally think it will heal every wounded soul. And then life would be worthwhile.